After all this talk of autisms downsides and effects, the next chapter in “Unmasking Autism” has the reader adopt a positive view on their autistic traits.
The [accompanying worksheets][1] list many of the same traits as the negative autistic stereotypes encountered previously, quite on purpose. Much as the degree and nature of a handicap is contexually dependent; so is the positive or negative valence of any personal traits.
Here goes. Format is
I am not negative trait, I am positive reframing.I value this because…
I am not arrogant, I am confident in my own abilities, and stand by my principles.
I am not cold, I am analytical, and notice patterns and connections. This is very useful at work, where I need to be very attuned to how, why and when the young people in my charge react the way they do.
I am not loud, I am enthusiastic (well… a little loud maybe). I feel so intently!
I am not childish, I am open-minded and playful; and am no stranger to being silly. Quite useful at work! Many situations are helped along if inhibitions are lowered slightly.
I am not sensitive, I am perceptive; emotionally attuned. This ties in to the analytical part mentioned above, and is more or less the basis for me doing my job.
I am not weird, I am unconventional. I have played the role of a straight man so often that it has become habit to some extent. However, as I’ve gotten older, I’ve had less fucks to give about, say, fashion. I’ll have a full beard and trousers that actually fit, thankyouverymuch. And if women can wear leggings and a sweathshirt, I certainly can too!